Im sure you know the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus (by John Gray, 1992). The book, as suggested by the title, asserts the notion that men and women are as different as beings from other planets. The book offers many suggestions for improving men-women relationships in couples by understanding the communication style and emotional needs of the opposite gender.
An example of the theories it offers is that women complain about problems because they want their problems to be acknowledged, while men complain about problems because they are asking for solutions.
Last week I was reminded about this book as we held a workshop in Nairobi, Kenya about ‘Enhancing access to Finance for agricultural producers’ the workshop marked the launch of the ForeFinance concept in the East Africa Region. Amongst the many participants were representatives from farmer cooperatives and representatives from financial institutions.
What followed was an animated and lively discussion about who is the cause of a lack of credit for farmer organizations. One farmer cried out to the banks “You send me people who do not know and understand agriculture. You give me lists with questions that are not relevant for my business. You offer me financial products that are not suited for my needs. What is it what you want?” Another coffee farmer remarked “Banks only look at my income statements and my collateral, when do you learn to appreciate the potential of my farm”
The banker replied “When you come to us for a loan you don’t give us the complete information. And when we give you a loan the management of the group changes and you don’t inform us. You are not reliable enough as an organisation”
If we want to move forward and solve the credit crunch that the agricultural producers are in for the last decades, we need to start by understanding the communication style and emotional needs of the opposite stakeholder group.
Farmers need to stop complaining and acknowledge that they are part of the credit problem. Bankers need to stop complaining and start to become active and entrepreneurial in looking for credible solutions.
ForeFinance, with its Credit Risk Assessment Methodology, will be the relationship counselor.